Bravery to Walk Away from Relationships

Why is it easier to walk down the aisle with the wrong guy than to be vulnerable and tell him he’s not the right guy?

8 years ago my Mom couldn’t understand why I broke up with my ex who was a successful Lawyer who was head over heels in love with me. She said to me “But it’s so hard to find good guys these days, can’t you just make it work?!”

I fantasized about him being “the one” because of the security I didn't feel within myself. We went to Europe, traveled to music festivals, and danced all night at our favorite parties together. On the outside, our relationship looked perfect.

But at some point, something inside of me felt a big fat NOPE. I knew deep down in my heart, that he wasn’t the right guy for me anymore.

The truth was that I exchanged my truth for inner- security. I avoided red flags so that I could make it work, keep him happy by not breaking his heart, and subconsciously being the people-pleasing nice girl who made my Mom happy too.

F*CK THAT NOISE. I chose to finally let go of my fears of being alone and to stop being the victim to my family's old beliefs that there aren't any good men out there.

I believe that you’re here to break the cycle of ancestral barriers and rewrite the paradigm of self-love in relationships. You don't have to be a victim to your relationship circumstances or you family's belief about you being in one.

You didn't come to this planet to be a people-pleasing nice girl who stays in relationships that are no longer in 100% integrity.

You came here to choose yourself no matter what your circumstances are.

Nice girls won’t change the world. (Tell me about one nice girl who has)

BRAVE women say the authentic thing that's from the heart even if it risks the possibility of breaking hearts and disappointing people.

Who do you want to be?